On the one hand, I am as frustrated as anyone with the
intractable, deadly conflicts around the promotion of purportedly untainted
universal truths that would bring everybody together if only “all those other
people would just come to their senses and accept what is obvious to us”. I’m
not going to pretend that that I’m OK with manipulative public pulpiteering or
that there is nothing wrong with cynically invoking ostentatiously spiritual
sentimentality to promote political agendas. I will not go along with willfully
ignorant denial of factual reality or condone reckless self-deception with my
silence. On the other hand, it is cruel and unnecessary to pull the rug out
from under anyone who relies on religion for comfort, security, unconditional love,
worthy and meaningful purposefulness, encouragement, and/or a sense of
connection with other people and with something larger than themselves.
Disparaging those who are doing the best they can to get by does not make the
world better or us seem smarter. It only pits us against each other, gets us
unnecessarily bogged down in a counterproductive side issue, and takes up
energy that could be directed toward common goals.
The possibility of working together toward a more promising
future is not a ridiculously idealistic fantasy. Pursuing it takes us down a
brightly-lit, broad highway that has led the greater human community to many
historic breakthroughs, surprising victories, and revolutionary
accomplishments. Those who have preceded us on that venerable highway didn’t
know any better than to challenge set ideas about what is possible.
Considerable obstacles notwithstanding, finding solutions to the most difficult
problems the global human community faces is not complicated. What we need to
do to move forward is as obvious as first grade arithmetic because the main
requirement is to get in touch with our commonality, and by definition, commonality is common.
While it would be unrealistic to aim for unanimity, if we can translate what we
largely share in common with each other into a nonpartisan commitment to the
common cause of building up social, political, and economic institutions that
foster freedom, fairness, opportunity, personal responsibility, and the common
welfare, we can find a rallying point that would bring us together around a
shared vision for a society that is more hospitable to basic human decency.
There are enough of us who are capable of experiencing a deep mutual affinity
that is firmly grounded in our common concerns, our common interests, and our
ability to identify and empathize with each other. We can achieve critical
mass, unite behind the goal of encouraging sustainable economic growth, and
promote a more broadly prosperous global human community through a large scale
collaborative effort.
What stands in the way is not a shortage of talent, brainpower,
or resources; instead, we are defeated at the very outset by our fear, our
short-sightedness, and our cynicism. Whoever first observed that it is amazing
what people can accomplish if they don’t care who gets the credit deserves more
credit than he or she was probably looking to receive, but actually, what is
even more amazing is how many of our worst problems would simply evaporate if
we could see the attention-grabbing and the ostentatious self-importance that
we take for granted for what they are, a sad charade of one-upmanship produced
by childish insecurity. In recent centuries, humanity has come to recognize
that the earth is not the center of the universe; most of us however have not
outgrown the tendency to view the universe though anthropocentric,
ethnocentric, or egocentric eyes. Our skewed perspective distorts reality,
crowds out empathy, humility, respect, and trust, and severely limits our
ability to work through conflicts, to appreciate our complementary differences,
and to foster meaningful unity, impactful solidarity, and productive
collaboration. We trade in hope, confident wellbeing, and goodwill for social
rituals that perpetuate an endemic pattern of wasted talent, misused time, and
misdirected energy. The considerable good that ordinary people have to
contribute is driven out of the process or buried by greedy, aggressive
pursuits of power prestige and ugly displays of territorialism which are like
the dance that dogs do with fire hydrants, often under a thin veil of
sanctimonious pretence of moral superiority.
Consequently, who we are becomes shaped by a paranoiac need to
protect ourselves against real and imagined adversaries and against any
troubling circumstance, intrusive idea, or uncomfortable awareness that would
topple the houses of cards that pretend to offer security and places to hide. A
bunker mentality sets in. We
hide inside our fortresses of discontented obliviousness, surrounded by
stockpiles of yesterday’s distractions, anxiously guarding sentimentalized
versions of reality, elaborate museums of what never was, shrines to what will
never be, mausoleums of foreclosed possibilities, and hollowed out spaces that
accusingly echo and amplify our regrets. We become trapped in a vicious circle
of fear, hoarding, and scarcity. As with someone dying of thirst in the middle
of the ocean, what we need is abundant but tragically unavailable. Even more
tragic, our deprivation is self-inflicted. The situation we are in is akin to
the hell described in an old parable known as the allegory of the long spoons. In the parable,
everyone in Hell is perpetually hungry because the only means of eating is with
spoons that are too long. They are incapable of getting any food into their
mouths because of their aversion to feeding each other. In the real world,
being in a situation in which the simple willingness make choices that would
bolster a rising tide that lifts all boats is too weak to overcome the
warranted fear of being taken advantage of is what is known as a collective
action problem. The solution is obvious; however, it involves cooperation,
intelligent pooling of resources, and trust that others are going to follow
suit, and because of costs, risks, and insufficient incentives at the level of
the individual, what happens instead is a cascading race to the bottom. Dreams
of what could be sit on the shelf collecting dust, producing a return on
investment equivalent to hiding our life savings under the mattress.
Recovering humanity, playing on two meanings of the word
humanity, humanity as a set of personal characteristics we all share in common
and humanity as a collective entity of which we are each inescapably a part, is
about the natural reciprocal relationship between the vulnerability that is
inherent in humanity at the individual level and the strength that emerges when
we gather seemingly unrelated puzzle pieces drawn from our fragmentary
understandings and our disparate perspectives and combine them into something
resembling a unified whole. As each of us stokes the glowing embers of human
sympathy that smolder in our hearts, we augment our bond with the humanity that
all of us together instantiate. And coming from the other end, as we recover a
communal bond with the humanity arrayed around us, we enrich our connection
with the humanity within that is our birthright. We find new connections by
looking inward at our own restlessness and incompleteness, looking outward for
companionship, similarities that we can identify with, and for ways to belong
and participate, looking inward again for stirrings of our most authentically
human responsiveness, and looking outward again toward possibilities beyond our
own limited reach as separate individuals. If we accept the challenge, dare to
care, venture out from the cozy cocoons within which we smugly insulate ourselves,
reawaken our imagination, dredge up our buried dreams, bring to the table
underutilized talents and untapped strengths, replace unverifiable suppositions
with human-centered actualities, and cultivate optimism and openness through
mutual encouragement and trust-building, our hopeful gamble will be rewarded
over the long haul, if not always in the near term.